Strong love

Can you live apart from your lover? Which means you're still in love with each other, but needs to be separated for some reasons in a period of time?

One of my lovely cousins got a fine new job in Taipei county recently. She lived in the south TW for the past ten years, but for the job she needs to leave her husband & the pets to the north at least half of a year. I really admire her courage and the love from her husband. If I were she, I cannot do as well as that. I must not that bravely to leave everything I have. It is really not easy for people leaving their original life, especially the one who got the partner in life. You need to discuss a lot of things, anything that matters you & your mate. Like: you're used to have him/her to give you a hand if you need instantly. You could easily get someone sharing your happy or blue time, you won't lonely in your life.

For me, if you love each other, try your best to be together forever is very important! Life is so short! Don't waste time at something that has no meaning to you.

You might tell me that in this modern time, we got internet, phone, msn, skype...a lot of stuff could be the convenient tools for you to get in touch with each other. Don't be that sad for separating. Indeed! We really have these useful implements to say any words to our lovers. That's helpful to use that if you only be apart for one day, one week or it's for just friends. What if it will happen for more than six months or longer for sweethearts? That could be cruel to them.

It will be a very big challenge for a loving couple to live apart. They must put each other deeply in the heart. Thinking of him/her incessant. What he/she is doing now? Did he/she have a good day? Did he/she have meal or not? How's the weather there? Is she/he missing me the more as I did...

There must be plenty of couples living such a life all over the world. Some people might say "it's not a big deal! It’s just a test of love. If they really love each other, they would be easily passing the exam. If not, that means they don't really love each other." I doubt it! Love can be tested? If you love him/her, why you need to do the test? To prove the love? I think it's only for the one who is not sure he/her loves each other. If you absolutely love each other, you won't do this.

For my cousin's case, they've been together for a lot of years. Mature love would get them through this kind of situation. They've thought a lot of ways to deal with it. She will try her best to transfer back to her sweet hometown ASAP. Before that, she is going to bus home 10 hours for a round-trip each week. And her husband will do that if he got a day off. What a long journey! But, it's truly worth a love hug...