What's the type? that you can't date with...

I had a pleasant evening with my friend, H, today. He brought me a lovely candelabrum as a gift, which is from his Bali trip last week. Bali is very famous as these crafts. I like it a lot. We had dinner together, as he would like me to give him some ideas for finding a great gift to the girl he likes.

He is now 34 years old, and still chasing the girl for more than two years. The young lady seems not easy to get. She always got boys around and used to hand up his phone call. He likes the girl a lot, but hasn't got the chance to date her. All he could do is keeping her in his mind and sending flowers and gifts each Chinese Valentine's day. Last year was a big Teddy bear with a swarovski necklace and a big bunch of roses. But he wondered if it was not good enough for her…

I told him the gift is not that important, but the feeling, the chemistry. In fact, he never be in a real relationship so far, that's why he doesn't know what a girl want. He got several girls liked him before, but all not his type. The type he likes is always very hard to get. I suddenly found this might be the main reason for him not to date a girl yet! He always run for the same type that them might not like him at all. If he didn't realize it, he might not find the one for his life forever.

Like my elder cousin, B, who is 38 years old, and very successful at his business, but still not get married. He is tall, handsome, gentle, which is the type that every girl dreams to have. But, he is still single. I think he is not picky as he got engaged twice. The main reason for him not to get married is the two girls dumped him before the weddings! I was very sorry for him. But, I think he might need to change his type, his girl type. The girls he dated before have almost the same type, not only the appearance, but also the character. And that might be the type the girls would not give their hands on his hand. If he changed his thoughts, giving other type of girls a chance to date. That might be worked finally! What do you think?